My last relationship was a violent one and I've been alone for years. Now a man I've been friends with for the past 12 years has convinced me to give him a chance, even though I care for him but I'm not in love with him. Do you think we can work or should I just stay alone and give him the chance to find real love with someone else? - Sharon, Eltham

Graham says ... Try before you buy. The right man for you will be whoever you are with on June 26, 2006 at 6pm.