Dartford man pleads for help to come home after balcony fall in Turkey

Charlie Smith in a Turkish hospital Charlie Smith in a Turkish hospital

A 25-YEAR-OLD Dartford man who broke his back after falling from a balcony in Turkey is pleading for people to help him come home.

Last week News Shopper reported how Charlie Smith, of Lowerfield Street, flew out to Marmaris on September 27 for an 11-day holiday with his mum Heather Parry and seven-year-old brother Kane Parry.

But on October 5 disaster struck when the father-of-one fell from their third floor balcony at the Green Nature Resort and Spa - breaking his back in three places.

His family are desperately trying to raise £12,000 to pay for medical bills and to fly him home on a stretcher.

Speaking from his hospital bed in Turkey, Charlie told News Shopper: "I'm in a lot of pain today.

"I was moving around in bed because I didn't feel any pain but I was an idiot and I just hope I haven't damaged it even more.

"I'm laying completely flat, I can't move at all unless staff do it for me because they know how to do it properly."

He added: "I've been alright, I've had a couple of days where I have been feeling down but I have got a lot of support.

"Lots of things are being done for me and fundraising events - it's amazing.

"My friends are organising a drum and bass night because it's my favourite music, it means a lot to me.

"It's what's keeping me going."

Charlie has undergone an operation to remove bone fragment from his spinal cord but needs a second operation with specialist equipment, which is only available in the UK.

Charlie said: "They said I had a maximum of three weeks to get the operation otherwise I won't walk again and I have already been here two weeks.

"I'm being positive but I'm really worried."

Choking back tears, he added: "I really can't wait to see my child.

"I just pray to God I can walk again so we can do things together.

"My mum has been amazing, she has been my rock through all of this.

"I'm lucky I'm still here."

Charlie says the hospital staff have been nice and the food is good.

He said: "If anyone can help please donate. I need help to get back home, I want to get to see my son and I want to walk again."

Miss Parry, of Havelock Road, Gravesend, has raised £7,000 by selling Charlie's car, pawning jewellery and borrowing money from friends.

It is enough to fly him home next week but she will have to remain in the country for a few days to pay for the medical bills.

She told News Shopper: "He's got to have this operation within a week otherwise he won't walk again.

"There's a special machine at Kings College Hospital like a hoover, to take the bone out of his spinal column.

"The haven't got the machine to do it in Turkey.

"He's really upset at the moment. It's finally hitting him what's happened, it's an absolute nightmare."

She added: "My main concern is that they are taking him to Darent Valley Hospital.

"It's imperative he gets this operation done.

"Kings said they won't take him - he has to go to his local hospital and get transferred. It's wasting time."

A King's College Hospital spokeswoman said: "We are discussing with Darent Valley Hospital about the best way to manage Charlie's care when he returns to the UK."

A Darent Valley Hospital spokeswoman added negotiations were ongoing with Kings to let him go there directly.

A Facebook group called Charlie Smith Recovery Fund has raised around £700 to bring him home.

Family friends are holding a fundraising football match at Goals, in Green Street Green Road, Dartford, on Friday (October 26) from 8.30pm.

While Charlie's friends are hosting a Save to Rave event at Source of Sound in Tonbridge on November 16 from 9pm to 6am.

Entry costs £10 and the DJs and MCs will perform for free.

Cash raised from both events will be donated to the Charlie Smith Recovery Fund.

To make a donation, email hevparry@hotmail.co.uk

Comments(42)

reasonable75 says...
4:41pm Fri 19 Oct 12

Can anyone explain why this isn't covered by his insurance?

lord righteous says...
5:37pm Fri 19 Oct 12

reasonable75 wrote:
Can anyone explain why this isn't covered by his insurance?
It did say in a previous item on this poor guy that the insurance didn't cover
'balcony incidents'.
Another get out by the insurance b@stards!

mouthalmighty says...
6:39pm Fri 19 Oct 12

Ditto lord righteous

Oldchap says...
7:45pm Fri 19 Oct 12

Bet it was hidden in the small print

What is a "balcony incident" I can understand if someone was mucking about or drunk like that girl a year or so ago (although she hadn't bothered with insurance) but in this case was the balcony safe etc

Guess who ;) AGAIN ! says...
8:38pm Fri 19 Oct 12

People dont just fall off a balcony do they now. Was it drink or drug related is my question ?

ieshastringer says...
2:31pm Sat 20 Oct 12

charlie is my mums ex.. and im her daughter but talking about us isnt going to help anyone. its pathetic. im only 14 and your a bunch of adults so get a grip. you dont understand how much we have all been through so you have no right to judge my family! we still love charlie and hope he gets better so lets leave it at that. ok

JH1964 says...
3:54pm Sat 20 Oct 12

Can you please stop all the slanderous comments - this is NOT what the story is about. This young man needs hospital treatment not accusations thrown at him while he lays in hospital with a broken back & NO DRINK WAS INVOLVED. His Mother is trying her hardest in a foreign country with NO help from the British Embassy or Insurance Company to get her son home for urgent surgery. Please show some compassion

levi's says...
4:28pm Sat 20 Oct 12

Slander!! Malicious comments and threats !! How sad some of the people who read this news paper really are!! These are all issues that can be taken to the police!!! The story is about charlie who is in turkey in hospital needing an urgent operation and all you can say is nasty things about myself!! Crazy batty you need to get a life and stop snooping on peoples face book walls what has gone on between myself and charlie is none of you business and as you can see has upset my daughter!! Charlie's mum has been desperately trying to get help for charlie no insurance covers balcony falls regardless of suicide drink drugs or an accident look it up!!! I have donated towards getting charlie home in my own way and I'm sure giving up a 30 pound a month gym fee would not do anybody any good!! Obviously you have so many issues that you can't see beyond your own nose! Have you donated towards this? Or are you that callous that you can slander charlie and myself without trying to help! There's lots of good kind hearted people out there that have and are helping towards getting charlie home what sort of person would I be if I didn't want him home and on the road to recovery regardless of any problems that may or may not of happened you all really do need to sit and rethink the comments you have made on here as one day it may be you needing help!

nothappy263 says...
4:45pm Sat 20 Oct 12

Well said Levi's.
Its the insurance company that everyone should be throwing insults at.
Cannot believe they won't fly him home.
So sad, hope he gets the treatment he needs.

levi's says...
9:00pm Sat 20 Oct 12

oh and for those asking about the insurance company they tend to use the wording exposure to danger which seems to get them to get them out of a lot of claims or hazardous acvity they can use this to cover a lot of accidents unless you are being a hero trying to save someone then they will pay out!! so i suggest we all in future read the policies we buy instead of presuming they cover everything

fred30 says...
9:21am Sun 21 Oct 12

Why should the British tax payer pay for his 2nd Op at Kings there are people that work 45 hours or more hours every week and pay there taxes that can not have op's that they need. so why should this man be made a priority when this never happened in this country. If he fell off the balcony due to poor maintenance of the Hotel then it should be down to them and there insurance company to fund his flight home and 2nd op. If it wasn't cause of poor maintenance of the balcony then he should have to also pay for his 2nd op at Kings.

safc4ever says...
9:26am Sun 21 Oct 12

In an earlier article, his family said he had told the doctors that he had jumped off the balcony. If this is true, the consequences would not be covered by any insurance company, as it would be considered an act of self-harm. If, however, he fell off a balcony because it was too low, not fixed in place properly etc, then the hotel would be liable and should be sued. Thus, there is no need for the insurance company to cover / pay out for any type of 'balcony incident' as there is always someone whose negligence is to blame. I have sympathy for the gentleman being so badly injured far from home, but he and his family shouldn't be criticising the insurance company who are, in this case, quite correct in refusing to pay his repatriation costs.
I hope someone comes up with the money soon. Maybe the Newsshopper could contribute to apologise for not removing the dubious comments sooner? (The comments which break the Site Terms due to being malicious, regardless of truth or otherwise.)

the wall says...
1:48pm Sun 21 Oct 12

JH1964 wrote:
Can you please stop all the slanderous comments - this is NOT what the story is about. This young man needs hospital treatment not accusations thrown at him while he lays in hospital with a broken back & NO DRINK WAS INVOLVED. His Mother is trying her hardest in a foreign country with NO help from the British Embassy or Insurance Company to get her son home for urgent surgery. Please show some compassion
British Embassies are not there for bailing people out.

Have a read:

http://www.fco.gov.u
k/en/travel-and-livi
ng-abroad/when-thing
s-go-wrong/sick-inju
red


Also Virgin Travel Insurance is arranged by Insure & Go Insurance Service Ltd and underwritten by Mapfre Asistencia. Mapfre Asistencia is a leading international insurer with their head office in Madrid.

Terms and Conditions:
Reckless or Malicious Acts
We will not pay for any claim arising or resulting from you being involved in any malicious, reckless, illegal or criminal act.

General exclusions:
13. We will not cover claims if you or any person insured on your policy: - any psychiatric or psychological condition (including
anxiety or depression);

19. Any claim that results from:
your suicide or attempted suicide;
you injuring yourself deliberately or putting yourself in danger (unless you are trying to save
someone’s life); or you fighting (except in self-defence).

Oldchap says...
4:39pm Sun 21 Oct 12

Could one of his relatives / friends etc enlighten us as to what he was doing when he fell:-
Mucking about?
Drunk?
Leaning on rail which collapsed?
Trying to take his own life?

Outandabout says...
2:20pm Mon 22 Oct 12

The first time this story appeared I said this "I sympathise with this family's plight but you have to ask why insurance companies now don't cover 'balcony incidents'. I can't recall the last time one happened in the UK but abroad Brits are doing it in great numbers and it isn't hard to figure out why. I hope the family are able to borrow the money and bring him home but for me I'm afraid there are other causes I would rather donate to.”. I am prepared to give £50 if someone WHO KNOWS, not some guess work, actually says what happened, how and what time of the day. If people expect donations then people who might donate can be expected to judge whether it was a reckless act that caused the injury. I think it is only fair if you expect money from strangers that they don't read two stories that exclude the actual detail of what happened.

Joan of Ark says...
6:14pm Mon 22 Oct 12

It would take a very hard hearted person not to feel some sympathy with the plight of this young man and his family and I do sympathise. However, people don't just "fall" over balconies! I recall in the very first report of this that there was mention that the young man concerned had recently lost his father and was not in the best frame of mind. Clearly this is not therefore a case of the insurance company being difficult - the reality is that why should they pay out for someone who acted may have acted recklessly!? Then there is mention of "sue the hotel" - errr, why???? (by the way good luck with suing a Turkish hotel through the Turkish courts - it would take years). People need to stop looking to blame other parties for this outcome and take responsibility for their own actions. Of course I wish them well, and yes of course once he comes home, which he will, then he should receive the very best care our NHS can provide, that is his right regardless of where the accident happened.

levi's says...
12:19am Tue 23 Oct 12

Obviously rare cockneyguvner you are unable to be polite! you quote tags on people you know nothing about I find that very insulting, if however you had something intelligent to say I would truly be intrigued. obviously your vocabulary hasn't risen above the play ground slang you read in trashy magazines! In future I suggest you keep your belittling comments to your self!

PaulErith says...
9:11am Tue 23 Oct 12

the wall wrote:
JH1964 wrote: Can you please stop all the slanderous comments - this is NOT what the story is about. This young man needs hospital treatment not accusations thrown at him while he lays in hospital with a broken back & NO DRINK WAS INVOLVED. His Mother is trying her hardest in a foreign country with NO help from the British Embassy or Insurance Company to get her son home for urgent surgery. Please show some compassion
British Embassies are not there for bailing people out. Have a read: http://www.fco.gov.u k/en/travel-and-livi ng-abroad/when-thing s-go-wrong/sick-inju red Also Virgin Travel Insurance is arranged by Insure & Go Insurance Service Ltd and underwritten by Mapfre Asistencia. Mapfre Asistencia is a leading international insurer with their head office in Madrid. Terms and Conditions: Reckless or Malicious Acts We will not pay for any claim arising or resulting from you being involved in any malicious, reckless, illegal or criminal act. General exclusions: 13. We will not cover claims if you or any person insured on your policy: - any psychiatric or psychological condition (including anxiety or depression); 19. Any claim that results from: your suicide or attempted suicide; you injuring yourself deliberately or putting yourself in danger (unless you are trying to save someone’s life); or you fighting (except in self-defence).
Get a life! You really are a sad individual. You go to the bother of looking up and quoting all this stuff in some misguided illusion that it makes you look intelligent. This story is about a poor lad who needs an operation. Obviously insurance policies don't cover incidents where one has deliberately put themself in danger. However, it's not really yours or my place to judge as we weren't there and don't know exactly how this happened. The main thing is that people are trying to make good efforts to raise the money. Good luck to them.

the wall says...
9:57am Tue 23 Oct 12

PaulErith wrote:
the wall wrote:
JH1964 wrote: Can you please stop all the slanderous comments - this is NOT what the story is about. This young man needs hospital treatment not accusations thrown at him while he lays in hospital with a broken back & NO DRINK WAS INVOLVED. His Mother is trying her hardest in a foreign country with NO help from the British Embassy or Insurance Company to get her son home for urgent surgery. Please show some compassion
British Embassies are not there for bailing people out. Have a read: http://www.fco.gov.u k/en/travel-and-livi ng-abroad/when-thing s-go-wrong/sick-inju red Also Virgin Travel Insurance is arranged by Insure & Go Insurance Service Ltd and underwritten by Mapfre Asistencia. Mapfre Asistencia is a leading international insurer with their head office in Madrid. Terms and Conditions: Reckless or Malicious Acts We will not pay for any claim arising or resulting from you being involved in any malicious, reckless, illegal or criminal act. General exclusions: 13. We will not cover claims if you or any person insured on your policy: - any psychiatric or psychological condition (including anxiety or depression); 19. Any claim that results from: your suicide or attempted suicide; you injuring yourself deliberately or putting yourself in danger (unless you are trying to save someone’s life); or you fighting (except in self-defence).
Get a life! You really are a sad individual. You go to the bother of looking up and quoting all this stuff in some misguided illusion that it makes you look intelligent. This story is about a poor lad who needs an operation. Obviously insurance policies don't cover incidents where one has deliberately put themself in danger. However, it's not really yours or my place to judge as we weren't there and don't know exactly how this happened. The main thing is that people are trying to make good efforts to raise the money. Good luck to them.
The irony of you telling me to "get a life" is that I'll probably take yours!
You are correct, I have no friends. I am lonely and sad. I am currently sitting in a cave by myself, sustaining myself on beetles, powering my laptop by an ingenious array of pulleys and flywheels constructed from small lizards and tree sap from the local flora. I came here to escape my family, friends, industry associates, acquaintances and the lady next door who was spying on me, in the hope of completing my novel titled "why are there so many d1ckheads called Paul that live in Erith?" I have made the dedication out to you Paul and will endeavour to send you a copy once it goes to print.

The trouble is you're confusing your own opinion with facts....... again. Are you mentally spasticated?


reasonable75 asked a question (see first post) I knew where the answer was so c and p'ed the said sections onto this site, took all of 2 minutes. Having known someone that has been through the same situation.

So where have I judged this person? That's right I haven't. This is just one of your attempts to try and make yourself look big and ard init. Your so full of sh1t that I bet his eyes are Brown.


So off you go now little boy and stop drinking your watery faeces.

PaulErith says...
11:51am Tue 23 Oct 12

the wall wrote:
PaulErith wrote:
the wall wrote:
JH1964 wrote: Can you please stop all the slanderous comments - this is NOT what the story is about. This young man needs hospital treatment not accusations thrown at him while he lays in hospital with a broken back & NO DRINK WAS INVOLVED. His Mother is trying her hardest in a foreign country with NO help from the British Embassy or Insurance Company to get her son home for urgent surgery. Please show some compassion
British Embassies are not there for bailing people out. Have a read: http://www.fco.gov.u k/en/travel-and-livi ng-abroad/when-thing s-go-wrong/sick-inju red Also Virgin Travel Insurance is arranged by Insure & Go Insurance Service Ltd and underwritten by Mapfre Asistencia. Mapfre Asistencia is a leading international insurer with their head office in Madrid. Terms and Conditions: Reckless or Malicious Acts We will not pay for any claim arising or resulting from you being involved in any malicious, reckless, illegal or criminal act. General exclusions: 13. We will not cover claims if you or any person insured on your policy: - any psychiatric or psychological condition (including anxiety or depression); 19. Any claim that results from: your suicide or attempted suicide; you injuring yourself deliberately or putting yourself in danger (unless you are trying to save someone’s life); or you fighting (except in self-defence).
Get a life! You really are a sad individual. You go to the bother of looking up and quoting all this stuff in some misguided illusion that it makes you look intelligent. This story is about a poor lad who needs an operation. Obviously insurance policies don't cover incidents where one has deliberately put themself in danger. However, it's not really yours or my place to judge as we weren't there and don't know exactly how this happened. The main thing is that people are trying to make good efforts to raise the money. Good luck to them.
The irony of you telling me to "get a life" is that I'll probably take yours! You are correct, I have no friends. I am lonely and sad. I am currently sitting in a cave by myself, sustaining myself on beetles, powering my laptop by an ingenious array of pulleys and flywheels constructed from small lizards and tree sap from the local flora. I came here to escape my family, friends, industry associates, acquaintances and the lady next door who was spying on me, in the hope of completing my novel titled "why are there so many d1ckheads called Paul that live in Erith?" I have made the dedication out to you Paul and will endeavour to send you a copy once it goes to print. The trouble is you're confusing your own opinion with facts....... again. Are you mentally spasticated? reasonable75 asked a question (see first post) I knew where the answer was so c and p'ed the said sections onto this site, took all of 2 minutes. Having known someone that has been through the same situation. So where have I judged this person? That's right I haven't. This is just one of your attempts to try and make yourself look big and ard init. Your so full of sh1t that I bet his eyes are Brown. So off you go now little boy and stop drinking your watery faeces.
Calm down dear!

I'll just like to point out the hypocracy in your statement, "This is just one of your attempts to try and make yourself look big and ard init."

That seems to be your staple tactic on this website. For example, how many times do you criticise someone's spelling or grammar. Funnily enough I read a comment you wrote in the last hour where you did exactly that. (ist 1st). I can see only one reason for this; namely to try to put them down and make yourself look big.

the wall says...
12:44pm Tue 23 Oct 12

PaulErith wrote:
the wall wrote:
PaulErith wrote:
the wall wrote:
JH1964 wrote: Can you please stop all the slanderous comments - this is NOT what the story is about. This young man needs hospital treatment not accusations thrown at him while he lays in hospital with a broken back & NO DRINK WAS INVOLVED. His Mother is trying her hardest in a foreign country with NO help from the British Embassy or Insurance Company to get her son home for urgent surgery. Please show some compassion
British Embassies are not there for bailing people out. Have a read: http://www.fco.gov.u k/en/travel-and-livi ng-abroad/when-thing s-go-wrong/sick-inju red Also Virgin Travel Insurance is arranged by Insure & Go Insurance Service Ltd and underwritten by Mapfre Asistencia. Mapfre Asistencia is a leading international insurer with their head office in Madrid. Terms and Conditions: Reckless or Malicious Acts We will not pay for any claim arising or resulting from you being involved in any malicious, reckless, illegal or criminal act. General exclusions: 13. We will not cover claims if you or any person insured on your policy: - any psychiatric or psychological condition (including anxiety or depression); 19. Any claim that results from: your suicide or attempted suicide; you injuring yourself deliberately or putting yourself in danger (unless you are trying to save someone’s life); or you fighting (except in self-defence).
Get a life! You really are a sad individual. You go to the bother of looking up and quoting all this stuff in some misguided illusion that it makes you look intelligent. This story is about a poor lad who needs an operation. Obviously insurance policies don't cover incidents where one has deliberately put themself in danger. However, it's not really yours or my place to judge as we weren't there and don't know exactly how this happened. The main thing is that people are trying to make good efforts to raise the money. Good luck to them.
The irony of you telling me to "get a life" is that I'll probably take yours! You are correct, I have no friends. I am lonely and sad. I am currently sitting in a cave by myself, sustaining myself on beetles, powering my laptop by an ingenious array of pulleys and flywheels constructed from small lizards and tree sap from the local flora. I came here to escape my family, friends, industry associates, acquaintances and the lady next door who was spying on me, in the hope of completing my novel titled "why are there so many d1ckheads called Paul that live in Erith?" I have made the dedication out to you Paul and will endeavour to send you a copy once it goes to print. The trouble is you're confusing your own opinion with facts....... again. Are you mentally spasticated? reasonable75 asked a question (see first post) I knew where the answer was so c and p'ed the said sections onto this site, took all of 2 minutes. Having known someone that has been through the same situation. So where have I judged this person? That's right I haven't. This is just one of your attempts to try and make yourself look big and ard init. Your so full of sh1t that I bet his eyes are Brown. So off you go now little boy and stop drinking your watery faeces.
Calm down dear! I'll just like to point out the hypocracy in your statement, "This is just one of your attempts to try and make yourself look big and ard init." That seems to be your staple tactic on this website. For example, how many times do you criticise someone's spelling or grammar. Funnily enough I read a comment you wrote in the last hour where you did exactly that. (ist 1st). I can see only one reason for this; namely to try to put them down and make yourself look big.
Don't try digging me out. You give it but can't take it. You're such a muppet.


Tell me what part of London you think North Woolwich is in?

born n breed says...
12:51pm Tue 23 Oct 12

the wall wrote:
PaulErith wrote:
the wall wrote:
JH1964 wrote: Can you please stop all the slanderous comments - this is NOT what the story is about. This young man needs hospital treatment not accusations thrown at him while he lays in hospital with a broken back & NO DRINK WAS INVOLVED. His Mother is trying her hardest in a foreign country with NO help from the British Embassy or Insurance Company to get her son home for urgent surgery. Please show some compassion
British Embassies are not there for bailing people out. Have a read: http://www.fco.gov.u k/en/travel-and-livi ng-abroad/when-thing s-go-wrong/sick-inju red Also Virgin Travel Insurance is arranged by Insure & Go Insurance Service Ltd and underwritten by Mapfre Asistencia. Mapfre Asistencia is a leading international insurer with their head office in Madrid. Terms and Conditions: Reckless or Malicious Acts We will not pay for any claim arising or resulting from you being involved in any malicious, reckless, illegal or criminal act. General exclusions: 13. We will not cover claims if you or any person insured on your policy: - any psychiatric or psychological condition (including anxiety or depression); 19. Any claim that results from: your suicide or attempted suicide; you injuring yourself deliberately or putting yourself in danger (unless you are trying to save someone’s life); or you fighting (except in self-defence).
Get a life! You really are a sad individual. You go to the bother of looking up and quoting all this stuff in some misguided illusion that it makes you look intelligent. This story is about a poor lad who needs an operation. Obviously insurance policies don't cover incidents where one has deliberately put themself in danger. However, it's not really yours or my place to judge as we weren't there and don't know exactly how this happened. The main thing is that people are trying to make good efforts to raise the money. Good luck to them.
The irony of you telling me to "get a life" is that I'll probably take yours! You are correct, I have no friends. I am lonely and sad. I am currently sitting in a cave by myself, sustaining myself on beetles, powering my laptop by an ingenious array of pulleys and flywheels constructed from small lizards and tree sap from the local flora. I came here to escape my family, friends, industry associates, acquaintances and the lady next door who was spying on me, in the hope of completing my novel titled "why are there so many d1ckheads called Paul that live in Erith?" I have made the dedication out to you Paul and will endeavour to send you a copy once it goes to print. The trouble is you're confusing your own opinion with facts....... again. Are you mentally spasticated? reasonable75 asked a question (see first post) I knew where the answer was so c and p'ed the said sections onto this site, took all of 2 minutes. Having known someone that has been through the same situation. So where have I judged this person? That's right I haven't. This is just one of your attempts to try and make yourself look big and ard init. Your so full of sh1t that I bet his eyes are Brown. So off you go now little boy and stop drinking your watery faeces.
That's really funny.

PaulErith you've been sucked in, chewed up and spat out. You have some issues.

the wall says...
12:57pm Tue 23 Oct 12

PaulErith wrote:
the wall wrote:
PaulErith wrote:
the wall wrote:
JH1964 wrote: Can you please stop all the slanderous comments - this is NOT what the story is about. This young man needs hospital treatment not accusations thrown at him while he lays in hospital with a broken back & NO DRINK WAS INVOLVED. His Mother is trying her hardest in a foreign country with NO help from the British Embassy or Insurance Company to get her son home for urgent surgery. Please show some compassion
British Embassies are not there for bailing people out. Have a read: http://www.fco.gov.u k/en/travel-and-livi ng-abroad/when-thing s-go-wrong/sick-inju red Also Virgin Travel Insurance is arranged by Insure & Go Insurance Service Ltd and underwritten by Mapfre Asistencia. Mapfre Asistencia is a leading international insurer with their head office in Madrid. Terms and Conditions: Reckless or Malicious Acts We will not pay for any claim arising or resulting from you being involved in any malicious, reckless, illegal or criminal act. General exclusions: 13. We will not cover claims if you or any person insured on your policy: - any psychiatric or psychological condition (including anxiety or depression); 19. Any claim that results from: your suicide or attempted suicide; you injuring yourself deliberately or putting yourself in danger (unless you are trying to save someone’s life); or you fighting (except in self-defence).
Get a life! You really are a sad individual. You go to the bother of looking up and quoting all this stuff in some misguided illusion that it makes you look intelligent. This story is about a poor lad who needs an operation. Obviously insurance policies don't cover incidents where one has deliberately put themself in danger. However, it's not really yours or my place to judge as we weren't there and don't know exactly how this happened. The main thing is that people are trying to make good efforts to raise the money. Good luck to them.
The irony of you telling me to "get a life" is that I'll probably take yours! You are correct, I have no friends. I am lonely and sad. I am currently sitting in a cave by myself, sustaining myself on beetles, powering my laptop by an ingenious array of pulleys and flywheels constructed from small lizards and tree sap from the local flora. I came here to escape my family, friends, industry associates, acquaintances and the lady next door who was spying on me, in the hope of completing my novel titled "why are there so many d1ckheads called Paul that live in Erith?" I have made the dedication out to you Paul and will endeavour to send you a copy once it goes to print. The trouble is you're confusing your own opinion with facts....... again. Are you mentally spasticated? reasonable75 asked a question (see first post) I knew where the answer was so c and p'ed the said sections onto this site, took all of 2 minutes. Having known someone that has been through the same situation. So where have I judged this person? That's right I haven't. This is just one of your attempts to try and make yourself look big and ard init. Your so full of sh1t that I bet his eyes are Brown. So off you go now little boy and stop drinking your watery faeces.
Calm down dear! I'll just like to point out the hypocracy in your statement, "This is just one of your attempts to try and make yourself look big and ard init." That seems to be your staple tactic on this website. For example, how many times do you criticise someone's spelling or grammar. Funnily enough I read a comment you wrote in the last hour where you did exactly that. (ist 1st). I can see only one reason for this; namely to try to put them down and make yourself look big.
One more thing, instead of taking things out context why not read all the comments in the other news report.

Oh but you don't do that do you?

PaulErith says...
1:30pm Tue 23 Oct 12

born n breed wrote:
the wall wrote:
PaulErith wrote:
the wall wrote:
JH1964 wrote: Can you please stop all the slanderous comments - this is NOT what the story is about. This young man needs hospital treatment not accusations thrown at him while he lays in hospital with a broken back & NO DRINK WAS INVOLVED. His Mother is trying her hardest in a foreign country with NO help from the British Embassy or Insurance Company to get her son home for urgent surgery. Please show some compassion
British Embassies are not there for bailing people out. Have a read: http://www.fco.gov.u k/en/travel-and-livi ng-abroad/when-thing s-go-wrong/sick-inju red Also Virgin Travel Insurance is arranged by Insure & Go Insurance Service Ltd and underwritten by Mapfre Asistencia. Mapfre Asistencia is a leading international insurer with their head office in Madrid. Terms and Conditions: Reckless or Malicious Acts We will not pay for any claim arising or resulting from you being involved in any malicious, reckless, illegal or criminal act. General exclusions: 13. We will not cover claims if you or any person insured on your policy: - any psychiatric or psychological condition (including anxiety or depression); 19. Any claim that results from: your suicide or attempted suicide; you injuring yourself deliberately or putting yourself in danger (unless you are trying to save someone’s life); or you fighting (except in self-defence).
Get a life! You really are a sad individual. You go to the bother of looking up and quoting all this stuff in some misguided illusion that it makes you look intelligent. This story is about a poor lad who needs an operation. Obviously insurance policies don't cover incidents where one has deliberately put themself in danger. However, it's not really yours or my place to judge as we weren't there and don't know exactly how this happened. The main thing is that people are trying to make good efforts to raise the money. Good luck to them.
The irony of you telling me to "get a life" is that I'll probably take yours! You are correct, I have no friends. I am lonely and sad. I am currently sitting in a cave by myself, sustaining myself on beetles, powering my laptop by an ingenious array of pulleys and flywheels constructed from small lizards and tree sap from the local flora. I came here to escape my family, friends, industry associates, acquaintances and the lady next door who was spying on me, in the hope of completing my novel titled "why are there so many d1ckheads called Paul that live in Erith?" I have made the dedication out to you Paul and will endeavour to send you a copy once it goes to print. The trouble is you're confusing your own opinion with facts....... again. Are you mentally spasticated? reasonable75 asked a question (see first post) I knew where the answer was so c and p'ed the said sections onto this site, took all of 2 minutes. Having known someone that has been through the same situation. So where have I judged this person? That's right I haven't. This is just one of your attempts to try and make yourself look big and ard init. Your so full of sh1t that I bet his eyes are Brown. So off you go now little boy and stop drinking your watery faeces.
That's really funny. PaulErith you've been sucked in, chewed up and spat out. You have some issues.
Quite the contrary my dear fellow. I don't think that I was the one sucked in. That post was a rant and a half!

born n breed says...
1:49pm Tue 23 Oct 12

No. I think you'll find that you started it and the the wall ended it in a great post. You're just trying to save face know.

And you didn't have a rant at them first. Saying 'Get a life! A phrase retards say to other people who they don't know anything about. It's just a dumb phrase to say because they can't think of anything else but just want your attention. The truth is the people who tell others to 'get a life' are the ones lacking the life.

You got done big time! LOL.

Outandabout says...
1:55pm Tue 23 Oct 12

Outandabout wrote:
The first time this story appeared I said this "I sympathise with this family's plight but you have to ask why insurance companies now don't cover 'balcony incidents'. I can't recall the last time one happened in the UK but abroad Brits are doing it in great numbers and it isn't hard to figure out why. I hope the family are able to borrow the money and bring him home but for me I'm afraid there are other causes I would rather donate to.”. I am prepared to give £50 if someone WHO KNOWS, not some guess work, actually says what happened, how and what time of the day. If people expect donations then people who might donate can be expected to judge whether it was a reckless act that caused the injury. I think it is only fair if you expect money from strangers that they don't read two stories that exclude the actual detail of what happened.
Well. Now that the egos have been massaged, can we get back to the story. I hope those 'in the know' are reading the pertinent comments and a response to the earlier post is forthcoming. there seems to be a reluctance to engage on what caused the injuries.

friendsofthefamily says...
3:53pm Tue 23 Oct 12

Jesus Christ how many vindictive nasty people out there? Im ashamed to read those who have written such horrid comments about Charlie. Hes a good lad, who doesnt deserve such comments or doubt thrown in. He didnt jump, nor were drink or drugs involved as he was tested for them. The toxicology report came back as a total NEGATIVE. So cast that Assumption out of that lonely brain cell. If you have anything negative to say, then dont bother, as Charlie needs all the Positive energy sent... not you foolish negative rubbish awaiting a responce... how sad these Trolls are.....

Gypo.Joe says...
3:57pm Tue 23 Oct 12

"PaulErith you've been sucked in, chewed up and spat out. You have some issues.”


Only some issues !! ROFL
You could write a book on them, someone probably has in fact.

rarecockneyguvnor says...
4:58pm Tue 23 Oct 12

levi's wrote:
Obviously rare cockneyguvner you are unable to be polite! you quote tags on people you know nothing about I find that very insulting, if however you had something intelligent to say I would truly be intrigued. obviously your vocabulary hasn't risen above the play ground slang you read in trashy magazines! In future I suggest you keep your belittling comments to your self!
Ohh get you. I have one word for you levi...testiclelocks
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Oldchap says...
10:20pm Tue 23 Oct 12

friendsofthefamily wrote:
Jesus Christ how many vindictive nasty people out there? Im ashamed to read those who have written such horrid comments about Charlie. Hes a good lad, who doesnt deserve such comments or doubt thrown in. He didnt jump, nor were drink or drugs involved as he was tested for them. The toxicology report came back as a total NEGATIVE. So cast that Assumption out of that lonely brain cell. If you have anything negative to say, then dont bother, as Charlie needs all the Positive energy sent... not you foolish negative rubbish awaiting a responce... how sad these Trolls are.....
So can YOU let us know what happened? Is it such an unreasonable question?

Outandabout says...
11:53am Wed 24 Oct 12

Oldchap wrote:
friendsofthefamily wrote:
Jesus Christ how many vindictive nasty people out there? Im ashamed to read those who have written such horrid comments about Charlie. Hes a good lad, who doesnt deserve such comments or doubt thrown in. He didnt jump, nor were drink or drugs involved as he was tested for them. The toxicology report came back as a total NEGATIVE. So cast that Assumption out of that lonely brain cell. If you have anything negative to say, then dont bother, as Charlie needs all the Positive energy sent... not you foolish negative rubbish awaiting a responce... how sad these Trolls are.....
So can YOU let us know what happened? Is it such an unreasonable question?
I make you right. I was genuinely prepared to donate £50 but somehow feel there is something to hide so I won't donate. There is nothing negative or vindiictive about what I have said and your comment is right, it isn't unreasonable to ask when the family are looking for donations

reasonable75 says...
3:33pm Wed 24 Oct 12

Strange that his friends & family were quick to add "certain" comments, but no-one has enlightened us as to exactly what happened

Is the question too difficult?

PaulErith says...
4:14pm Wed 24 Oct 12

reasonable75 wrote:
Strange that his friends & family were quick to add "certain" comments, but no-one has enlightened us as to exactly what happened

Is the question too difficult?
The one thing I would say is does it actually matter what happened exactly? Even if he had been drinking (which I'm not implying he was), would it really matter? I'm sure we have all done stupid things, and it doesn't mean that we wouldn't be entitled to compassion and help.

the wall says...
4:30pm Wed 24 Oct 12

PaulErith wrote:
reasonable75 wrote: Strange that his friends & family were quick to add "certain" comments, but no-one has enlightened us as to exactly what happened Is the question too difficult?
The one thing I would say is does it actually matter what happened exactly? Even if he had been drinking (which I'm not implying he was), would it really matter? I'm sure we have all done stupid things, and it doesn't mean that we wouldn't be entitled to compassion and help.
Cause it does. Christ on a bike man!

Do you just hand out money to anyone that asks?

Oldchap says...
5:20pm Wed 24 Oct 12

Do insurance companies cover stupidity?

Gypo.Joe says...
5:27pm Wed 24 Oct 12

Oldchap wrote:
Do insurance companies cover stupidity?
Well Oldchap they do insure women drivers.............
.nuff said.

PaulErith says...
10:34pm Wed 24 Oct 12

the wall wrote:
PaulErith wrote:
reasonable75 wrote: Strange that his friends & family were quick to add "certain" comments, but no-one has enlightened us as to exactly what happened Is the question too difficult?
The one thing I would say is does it actually matter what happened exactly? Even if he had been drinking (which I'm not implying he was), would it really matter? I'm sure we have all done stupid things, and it doesn't mean that we wouldn't be entitled to compassion and help.
Cause it does. Christ on a bike man!

Do you just hand out money to anyone that asks?
I know what you're saying fella, and can agree with you in some ways. Actually I'm probably too soft when it comes to helping people out. I'm always handing money out and lending it to people. But I guess I'm saying that I still have compassion for this guy whether or not it was his fault. If you saw a drunk guy fall off a wall he was climbing and laying there dying, you wouldn't just leave him. You'd still call the ambulance and hope that he's ok. I guess I'm saying we all do really stupid things sometimes but some of get lucky and some don't.

Oldchap says...
9:30pm Thu 25 Oct 12

But we STILL don't know what happened

rarecockneyguvnor says...
9:58pm Thu 25 Oct 12

Oldchap wrote:
But we STILL don't know what happened
Nope we dont, but I smell bullchit on this story.

bible scoffer says...
10:09am Fri 26 Oct 12

Guess who ;) AGAIN ! wrote:
People dont just fall off a balcony do they now. Was it drink or drug related is my question ?
...the same question is put to you for your inane comments - drink or drugs ? rofl!!

bible scoffer says...
10:13am Fri 26 Oct 12

...join-up the dots and see the failed-blogger at work!! chewed-and-spat-out!
! and erased from the archives!! rofl!! :)

Outandabout says...
12:53pm Fri 26 Oct 12

This is just a guess. I could be wrong but whoever replies 'on behalf of the family' please avoid accusing me of being vindictive, it's just not the right word. My guess is that when the Consulate found out what happened and HOW, they offered limited support because they thought 'serves you right'. The insurers felt much the same and didn't cover it. I was more than prepared to donate and have asked twice to get the details of what happened but my messages are being ignored, along with everyone else who is asking the same. So I can only conclude that the details are such that the familiy KNOW that if the story is told that people will make a judgement and that judgement will be 'oh if it happened like that then it serves him right for doing it'. Newsshopper: YOU have a duty here. If someone comes to you asking to publicise a cry for funds then you have to ensure it is bone -fide and you have to ensure the whole story is being told otherwise you do your readers an injustice and you open the door to every bleeding heart who wants money. To me I make the same judgement as I do when some scrote says 'I lost all my money, can I have money for the bus home' I refuse and see them time and time again doing the same to others. It's not about not wanting to help. Its about not giving my earned cash to someone who caused an accident because they were doing something stupid , which is my GUESS, it doesn't matter if they were sober or not. I GUESS he fell whilst being a pratt and I would rather give my money, emphasis on 'my money'. to someone who had an unfortunate accident whilst on holiday and needs to return home. Don't go screaming because you aint getting it!,

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