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Man with Down’s syndrome, called a freak & punched in the face in Dartford, tells of how he forgave his attacker

Christopher with his mother, Monica Christopher with his mother, Monica

A MAN with Down’s syndrome who was left traumatised after being punched in the face in Dartford town centre tells of how he forgave his attacker.

Committed Christian Christopher Diedo of Lavinia Road, Dartford, was called a freak before being assaulted in front of his parents last April.

But the 26-year-old’s belief in forgiveness prompted him to shake hands with his attacker when he was approached by him in the street around six weeks after the incident.

Last week, Christopher and his father, Andrew, spoke to News Shopper for the first time about the ordeal.

Andrew said: “The assault shook us as a family and left us more protective of Christopher.

“We were less willing to give him his own space when he was out and about.

“A confidence that had been built up painstakingly over the years had been shattered in a moment of cruelty, ignorance and rage.”

Mr Diedo says his son, who also has severe learning difficulties and speech problems, was left so traumatised by the attack, he tried to leave home several times for fear the man would find him and burn down their house.

But Christopher, a keen photographer with numerous awards under his belt, says his faith in God encouraged him to forgive and move on.

He said: “I shook the man's hand because I think that's what an angel would do - they'd forgive.

“I wasn't scared or worried then because I was with my mum and dad and the man seemed different.”

Mr Diedo says he was inspired by his son’s actions, having struggled to forgive the man himself.

The retired teacher said: “I felt humbled by my son’s readiness to forgive and move on and in an instant remembered what was called for and what I should have done first as a Christian and the head of my family, forgive the man and shake his hand, which I then did.

“It was left to our son with learning difficulties to show us the right way forward.”

Christopher and Andrew were inspired by a passage from Ecclesiastes to forgive.

It reads: "Resentment and anger, these are foul things and both are found with the sinner.

“Forgive your neighbour the hurt he does you and when you pray, your sins will be forgiven.”

In March, a 25-year-old man from Bexleyheath was jailed for 170 days after pleading guilty to common assault.

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Comments(6)

scits1 says...
10:51am Tue 12 Jul 11

how sick can someone be to attack this guy they should have their photo and details posted for all to see f****** coward

whats common about sense says...
12:43pm Tue 12 Jul 11

Totally agree with the previous comment, there is no excuse for this kind of behaviour it is disgusting and the offender should be named and shamed, 170 days is nothing, the impact this would have had on Christopher and his family must be awful, my heart goes out to them and I am ashamed that this kind of thing still happens in our society.

People with Downs are people too, they have thoughts and feelings and deserve to be treated with the same respect anybody else does, the real freaks are those that don't understand and don't even attempt to understand the impact their words and actions have on other people, they could learn a lot from Christopher, he seems like a very intelligent, compassionate, well brought up young man and is a credit to his parents.

ksc says...
1:22pm Tue 12 Jul 11

Mr Diedo claims his son has severe learning difficulties, in comparison to the pond life that attacked him, Christopher is on a par with Albert Einstein.

neonis says...
2:49pm Tue 12 Jul 11

i agree with all of the above comments,the thing that done this is total evil scum,and i hope he ends out getting exactly what he deserves!

BillHeslop says...
4:43pm Tue 26 Jul 11

Come on NS. A photo of the man who attacked him please. Or have the court put some order in to protect his identity. Justice hidden is justice lost.

ianc9139 says...
10:03am Wed 10 Aug 11

I dont condone violence but eye for an eye.....

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