My friend died in May and I would like to know if she is okay? - Norma, Lewisham

Graham says ... I felt she had a stomach condition, but I feel she now is around you when you need support, and feels free.

Will I die alone? - Anna-Marie, Basingstoke

Graham says ... No, I see a future with a man with a moustache, and smiling eyes.

Will I ever escape NPG? - Linda, Basingstoke

Graham says ... I see a picture where you escape and have independence.

You will turn over a new leaf and find you have to make changes and tidy up before you restart your life, and have time to reflect on someone who has gone.