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Sidcup Horse and Groom Harvester restaurant tells soldier to cover up uniform on Remembrance Sunday
9:59am Tuesday 13th November 2012 in News By Kelly Smale
Soldier told to cover up uniform on Remembrance Sunday by Sidcup restaurant
A SOLDIER who is set to go to Afghanistan was told to cover up his uniform on Remembrance Sunday by staff at a Sidcup restaurant.
George Flett, an ex-serviceman who served in the army for 10 years, had been to a memorial service at St John's Church, in Church Road, Sidcup, with the 22-year-old soldier.
The pair then headed to the Horse and Groom Harvester, in Main Road, to meet Mr Flett's son for a drink.
Mr Flett, 62, said: "We got in there with no problem.
"We just got a couple mouthfuls into our beer when the manager came over and asked him to cover up his uniform. He said it was against the law."
Mr Flett, from Sidcup, added: "I looked at my friend's face, he was gutted and we couldn't believe it.
"He's a young man who's going to go to Afghanistan to fight for all of us - it's not fair."
Mr Flett says his friends were "outraged" when they found out what happened.
He told News Shopper: "On that particular day it was disrespectful - not just to that young soldier who felt an inch tall, but it's disrespectful to the uniform, which upsets me.
"We were astounded. It's jaw-dropping stuff, you don't expect it."
Paul Molloy, 59, works at Sidcup Working Man's Club and his daughter is the soldier's girlfriend.
He said: "They went to the Harvester just to quickly wet the whistle before they came to the club.
"What would happen if two or three 85 year olds walked in with a chest full of medals, would they be refused if they didn't cover up?
"I'm outraged."
A spokeswoman for the Horse and Groom said: "This was a genuine mistake.
"We welcome uniformed Armed Forces into Harvester restaurants.
"We apologise for any offence caused and we will raise this issue with the restaurant team to ensure they fully understand our policy."
Comments(66)
Sidcupite
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11:01am Tue 13 Nov 12
the wall
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11:35am Tue 13 Nov 12
cookster wrote:Sacked ....For what reason?
If this did happen then the manager should be sacked. But until I read the full story somewhere more reliable than the News Shopper I'm very wary about believing it.
the wall
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11:37am Tue 13 Nov 12
Sidcupite wrote:This ^
Against the law? I'd appreciate it if the NS or an individual could follow this up and explain *why* the manager thought this was the case. That would help us to understand the manager's thoughts and give more depth to the article.
smirnofffff
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11:51am Tue 13 Nov 12
The guidlines of the licensing law doesnt allow the licensee to use disgression, ie if they know they are not on duty etc.
This law was brought into force many years ago to stop uniformed professionals drinking on duty.
That being said... I wouldnt have asked him to cover his uniform at all!
cookster
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12:49pm Tue 13 Nov 12
Shame it doesn't extend to chavs in baseball caps and football shirts.
the wall
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1:22pm Tue 13 Nov 12
smirnofffff wrote:That's not completly true.
i know it's silly but it is Actually AGAINST THE Licensing LAWs to serve anyone IN uniform such as police, ambulance, solider etc. The guidlines of the licensing law doesnt allow the licensee to use disgression, ie if they know they are not on duty etc. This law was brought into force many years ago to stop uniformed professionals drinking on duty. That being said... I wouldnt have asked him to cover his uniform at all!
B L Zeebub
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1:23pm Tue 13 Nov 12
the wall
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1:24pm Tue 13 Nov 12
Carparkattendant
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2:39pm Tue 13 Nov 12
the wall wrote:This only refers to police officers
smirnofffff wrote:That's not completly true.
i know it's silly but it is Actually AGAINST THE Licensing LAWs to serve anyone IN uniform such as police, ambulance, solider etc. The guidlines of the licensing law doesnt allow the licensee to use disgression, ie if they know they are not on duty etc. This law was brought into force many years ago to stop uniformed professionals drinking on duty. That being said... I wouldnt have asked him to cover his uniform at all!
Carparkattendant
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2:45pm Tue 13 Nov 12
Outandabout
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2:58pm Tue 13 Nov 12
Carparkattendant
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3:04pm Tue 13 Nov 12
Outandabout wrote:It applied to a Police Officer until 2003, because a Police Officer in a uniform is still classed as on duty even if he is sitting in his front room watching telly.
In some professions like the Police and Fire Service just being in a pub off duty in unifrom can lead to disciplinary action for bringing the service into disrepute but it isn't and never has been against the law. If a soldier got into a drunken brawl in uniform could be charged by the army and suffer a worse punishment for being in unform at the time.
phildaniels
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4:45pm Tue 13 Nov 12
The manager is a coward and does deserve to be sacked he has gone against his company policy is this not gross misconduct?
Harvester will not see me, my family or my friends in the future and I have already written to my company website (we employ 6000 MOD staff) and I'm sure this will affect Harvesters business. an apology from the manager in person to my son would go a long way to repair the damage
zampa
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5:25pm Tue 13 Nov 12
zampa
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5:32pm Tue 13 Nov 12
We see this happening all the time. And what isthe reply from Head Office "Sorry for the embarresment and we tell our staff and we welcome the Armed Forces" the Q. should be "Who told you NOT to serve the Armed Forces" and to phildaniels son, Celer et Audax. And the NAAFI would be bankrupt if they didn't sell booze to squaddies in uniform!
the wall
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5:38pm Tue 13 Nov 12
phildaniels wrote:Have you rang the Daily Mail, the Mail would love this story.
To confirm, it did happen and it happened to my son who is serving in the British army with 4 rifles, he is going off to afganistan next year to serve his queen and country so people such as the manager in the horse and groom plus thiose posting negative comments here have freedom of speach and can walk around in London without having to worry too much about backsack bombers blowing up women and children as the fight is being taken to their training camps overseas. The manager is a coward and does deserve to be sacked he has gone against his company policy is this not gross misconduct? Harvester will not see me, my family or my friends in the future and I have already written to my company website (we employ 6000 MOD staff) and I'm sure this will affect Harvesters business. an apology from the manager in person to my son would go a long way to repair the damage
I do wish your son and the rest of 4 rifles a safe return.
Lord Erastus Theobald Piggott
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5:56pm Tue 13 Nov 12
When loyal regulars were driven away by The Horse & Groom 10 years ago and the scum finally took over, who eventually turned the place around? I will tell you. The staff of The Horse & Groom together with Bexley Police.
That said, one hopes that Harvester might consider training courses in common sense and discretion for its staff in future and not spend so much time 'sticking to the book'.
Lord Erastus Theobald Piggott
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6:03pm Tue 13 Nov 12
Lord Erastus Theobald Piggott
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6:16pm Tue 13 Nov 12
the wall wrote:Eat your heart out, Enid Blyton.
phildaniels wrote:Have you rang the Daily Mail, the Mail would love this story.
To confirm, it did happen and it happened to my son who is serving in the British army with 4 rifles, he is going off to afganistan next year to serve his queen and country so people such as the manager in the horse and groom plus thiose posting negative comments here have freedom of speach and can walk around in London without having to worry too much about backsack bombers blowing up women and children as the fight is being taken to their training camps overseas. The manager is a coward and does deserve to be sacked he has gone against his company policy is this not gross misconduct? Harvester will not see me, my family or my friends in the future and I have already written to my company website (we employ 6000 MOD staff) and I'm sure this will affect Harvesters business. an apology from the manager in person to my son would go a long way to repair the damage
I do wish your son and the rest of 4 rifles a safe return.
Lord Erastus Theobald Piggott
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6:18pm Tue 13 Nov 12
zampa wrote:Dear me. You are a very bad troll.
Re-Submitted without spelling errors
We see this happening all the time. And what isthe reply from Head Office "Sorry for the embarresment and we tell our staff and we welcome the Armed Forces" the Q. should be "Who told you NOT to serve the Armed Forces" and to phildaniels son, Celer et Audax. And the NAAFI would be bankrupt if they didn't sell booze to squaddies in uniform!
Enough said.
smirnofffff
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7:08pm Tue 13 Nov 12
I was merely stating what i was taught when taking my NLC. Which is why i thought the manager had done what he did. I dont condone it at all.
mareen
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7:29pm Tue 13 Nov 12
paulbexleyheath
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7:36pm Tue 13 Nov 12
Carparkattendant
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7:38pm Tue 13 Nov 12
The publican 'e up an' sez, "We serve no red-coats here."
The girls be'ind the bar they laughed an' giggled fit to die,
I outs into the street again an' to myself sez I:
O it's Tommy this, an' Tommy that, an' "Tommy, go away";
But it's "Thank you, Mister Atkins", when the band begins to play,
The band begins to play, my boys, the band begins to play,
O it's "Thank you, Mister Atkins", when the band begins to play.
I went into a theatre as sober as could be,
They gave a drunk civilian room, but 'adn't none for me;
They sent me to the gallery or round the music-'alls,
But when it comes to fightin', Lord! they'll shove me in the stalls!
For it's Tommy this, an' Tommy that, an' "Tommy, wait outside";
But it's "Special train for Atkins" when the trooper's on the tide,
The troopship's on the tide, my boys, the troopship's on the tide,
O it's "Special train for Atkins" when the trooper's on the tide.
Yes, makin' mock o' uniforms that guard you while you sleep
Is cheaper than them uniforms, an' they're starvation cheap;
An' hustlin' drunken soldiers when they're goin' large a bit
Is five times better business than paradin' in full kit.
Then it's Tommy this, an' Tommy that, an' "Tommy, 'ow's yer soul?"
But it's "Thin red line of 'eroes" when the drums begin to roll,
The drums begin to roll, my boys, the drums begin to roll,
O it's "Thin red line of 'eroes" when the drums begin to roll.
We aren't no thin red 'eroes, nor we aren't no blackguards too,
But single men in barricks, most remarkable like you;
An' if sometimes our conduck isn't all your fancy paints,
Why, single men in barricks don't grow into plaster saints;
While it's Tommy this, an' Tommy that, an' "Tommy, fall be'ind",
But it's "Please to walk in front, sir", when there's trouble in the wind,
There's trouble in the wind, my boys, there's trouble in the wind,
O it's "Please to walk in front, sir", when there's trouble in the wind.
You talk o' better food for us, an' schools, an' fires, an' all:
We'll wait for extry rations if you treat us rational.
Don't mess about the cook-room slops, but prove it to our face
The Widow's Uniform is not the soldier-man's disgrace.
For it's Tommy this, an' Tommy that, an' "Chuck him out, the brute!"
But it's "Saviour of 'is country" when the guns begin to shoot;
An' it's Tommy this, an' Tommy that, an' anything you please;
An' Tommy ain't a bloomin' fool -- you bet that Tommy sees!
Rudyard Kipling
mareen
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7:50pm Tue 13 Nov 12
Sack the manager of where, the Horse and Groom or the training manager of the Harvester group, it's their responsibility to ensure that their managers are aware of current day acts. What is to be gained from putting this person out of work, use him/her as the scapegoat for head office's lack of training, that's just not on. Let's be honest, this is one of the very few countries that has so much respect for our fallen heroes that it doesn't even make the 11th November a public holiday of remebrance, who are you going to sack for that.
G_Whiz
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12:11am Wed 14 Nov 12
Where did he learn his trade.....
'Fundamentalism for Idiots'?
jeepo17
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9:24am Wed 14 Nov 12
Cheers!
PaulErith
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9:30am Wed 14 Nov 12
jeepo17 wrote:"we need to get a message out that this will not be tolerated and you could have a demo outside the pub to turn punters away". No offense but this isn't the biggest crime in the World. The manager by all accounts made a mistake! Big deal. We all do it. If you're going to organise protest, there's thousands of people or companies that deserve it more than this.
Very nasty thing by the pub manager would say but last week the same thing happened in Romford or somewhere "The Bull""? pub caused outrage over there so there was a demo over there last week outside the pub,the pub apologised but people should not tolerate this stuff we need to get a message out that this will not be tolerated and you could have a demo outside the pub to turn punters away,we are in a challenging world and this kind of stuff will be challenged Cheers!
worthy worthing
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9:52am Wed 14 Nov 12
Justin Case3
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10:31am Wed 14 Nov 12
mouthalmighty
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7:02pm Wed 14 Nov 12
mareen
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7:47pm Wed 14 Nov 12
G_Whiz
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11:28pm Wed 14 Nov 12
Indigenous Pensioner
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9:52am Thu 15 Nov 12
ron,,1952
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10:34am Thu 15 Nov 12
ron giving out free advice
hugs and kisses x
ron
reasonable75
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6:04pm Thu 15 Nov 12
If it is illegal to serve someone in uniform then he was quite correct - as failure to comply could have resulted in him bein prosecuted (and he would not know if it was a trap - similar to where underage kids are sent into shops to see if they can buy cigarettes)
Earlier comments suggest the law has been changed, so it might simply be ignorance & shows the need to keep up to date
mareen
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9:22pm Thu 15 Nov 12
goldenbroomboy
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9:09am Fri 16 Nov 12
reasonable75 wrote:It should be also be remembered that the manager did not order anybody out, but asked the man in uniform to cover the same. If he genuinely thought that to serve a man in uniform was against the law, then if anything, he was trying to be helpful.
I suppose the point is - what is the law? If it is illegal to serve someone in uniform then he was quite correct - as failure to comply could have resulted in him bein prosecuted (and he would not know if it was a trap - similar to where underage kids are sent into shops to see if they can buy cigarettes) Earlier comments suggest the law has been changed, so it might simply be ignorance & shows the need to keep up to date
mareen
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7:06pm Fri 16 Nov 12
ron.1952
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8:56pm Fri 16 Nov 12
mareen wrote:I'm so glad someone else has noticed Mareen.
I'm new to this commenting thing but one thing that I have summised from it is that with the exception of a few intelligent people's comments the rest of you are worse than the news that the whole issue is about. You have no self respect and without that you certainly have no respect for anyone or anything else.
These people walk the streets, its scary. They must all wear tin foil hats in the privacy of their homes. I fear for our future, really. It's a very true saying that empty vessels make the most noise.
Ronny Ron
charity begins at home
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12:21am Sat 17 Nov 12
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mareen
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11:48am Sat 17 Nov 12
Gypo.Joe
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11:59am Sat 17 Nov 12
It aint rocket science now is it.
PS, I've been called lots worse by the BNP clowns that post on here.
tHaNk YoU
mareen
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12:29pm Sat 17 Nov 12
My comment obviously went straight over your head, we are talking the moral of the story here. Soldier, Remembrance Sunday, fallen heroes and those maimed in combat that have given their lives, minds and limbs to give us peace in our time. I can almost hear my father turning in his grave and that's quite a rumble as he's buried in Pusan (if you know where that is) and has been there since he was 28 years old.
Gypo.Joe
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12:59pm Sat 17 Nov 12
I see above you are new to commenting on the Shopper, I can assure you once you have been reading and commenting on here for a while you will very quickly spot the BNP trolls who try to hijack certain stories to spout their bile.
Sorry if I offend you but I will not ever stop standing up to the likes of racist morons like them.
Lord Erastus Theobald Piggott
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1:28pm Sat 17 Nov 12
I really, really do.
Lord Erastus Theobald Piggott
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1:36pm Sat 17 Nov 12
So because one person misjudged a situation, the kitchen staff, waitresses and managers - yes, there is more than one manager, folks - everyone should lose their jobs? Hardly seems fair, does it?
Jobs are very hard to come by these days, so I hope that those demanding the closure will provide income for the redundant staff while they look for employment elsewhere and then become targets for the idiots on here who'll then accuse them of sponging of the state.
What a bunch of gossipy old women you all are.
mareen
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1:40pm Sat 17 Nov 12
I thank you for your apology and I do agree with you whole heartedly in respect of racism, I guess that what I'm trying to say is, that in this particular case some of the comments here are a little inept. Well done for your morals against racism anyway and I respect you for that.
Lord Erastus Theobald Piggott
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2:02pm Sat 17 Nov 12
I say 'cowardly' because not one of them will ever own up to being right-wing extremists. Just ask them and see if they have the bottle to admit they are British Nazis.
I urge all of you who have, up to now, resisted the temptation to voice your opinions about the BNP (British Nazi Party) for fear of giving it undue publicity to come forward and make it plain that their views are WRONG.
Please don't let these vile characters twist every story in their attempt to bolster their misguided and dangerous ideals.
Lord Erastus Theobald Piggott
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2:12pm Sat 17 Nov 12
Indigenous Pensioner wrote:Are you a BNP supporter?
HOw dare they do this to a member of the armed forces we did not fight 2 wars to be told what we can wear in a public house next this person will want to ban the wearing of our poppy in his public house over my dead body.Thank you.
Lord Erastus Theobald Piggott
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2:13pm Sat 17 Nov 12
cookster wrote:If you doubt the reliability of News Shopper, why do you read it?
If this did happen then the manager should be sacked.
But until I read the full story somewhere more reliable than the News Shopper I'm very wary about believing it.
firsteventure
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9:09am Sun 18 Nov 12
Gypo.Joe wrote:nothing on here about the bnp ... you are going crazy! lol
Mareen let me break this news to you, you don't have to read it. It aint rocket science now is it. PS, I've been called lots worse by the BNP clowns that post on here. tHaNk YoU
The Real Gypo
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10:02am Mon 19 Nov 12
if you,re supposedly caring so much in spotting racism on internet newspaper forums you would have spotted the previous erastus piggott blog pouring out a daily dose of racism against white people, you would have spotted the vile comments against wheelchair users where piggott wanted them banned from shops! you would have spotted the vile comments against white people who are overweight ( pot,kettle! ) you would have spotted the snide underhand sexist comments against white women....... but guess what! you never said anything or made any complaints against the piggott blog!
But the good news was that when everyone pulled together the erastus piggott blog was removed! yerrrrrrrr!
yes, the errastus piggott blog is no more!, finished!, kaput! which goes to prove that you trying to spot invisible racist comments made by posters, or comments supporting the british national party by posters do not really exsist and you are just smarting that the combined effort of posters who complained about the vile erastus piggott blog are attacked on here by those supporting racism towards white people!
piggott once boasted that the blog would not be defeated, but it was!
errastus piggott the bigot! defeated!
yippppppppppey!
Gypo.Joe
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10:58am Mon 19 Nov 12
the wall
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11:16am Mon 19 Nov 12
The Real Gypo wrote:One post above your's........ Who's that?
"Here is tissue for your issue!" lol
if you,re supposedly caring so much in spotting racism on internet newspaper forums you would have spotted the previous erastus piggott blog pouring out a daily dose of racism against white people, you would have spotted the vile comments against wheelchair users where piggott wanted them banned from shops! you would have spotted the vile comments against white people who are overweight ( pot,kettle! ) you would have spotted the snide underhand sexist comments against white women....... but guess what! you never said anything or made any complaints against the piggott blog!
But the good news was that when everyone pulled together the erastus piggott blog was removed! yerrrrrrrr!
yes, the errastus piggott blog is no more!, finished!, kaput! which goes to prove that you trying to spot invisible racist comments made by posters, or comments supporting the british national party by posters do not really exsist and you are just smarting that the combined effort of posters who complained about the vile erastus piggott blog are attacked on here by those supporting racism towards white people!
piggott once boasted that the blog would not be defeated, but it was!
errastus piggott the bigot! defeated!
yippppppppppey!
Gypo.Joe
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11:31am Mon 19 Nov 12
Wha wha wha they put my name on the interweb Simon, take it off I dont want anyone to know who I am....wha wha wha, then you talk about tissues ROFL.
You love to give it but cant take it back, typical bullies.
PaulErith
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12:48pm Mon 19 Nov 12
Lord Erastus Theobald Piggott wrote:Too right. Calling for a boycott of this place just because you don't like the opinions or actions of one the staff is moronic.
As for the idiots demanding the boycotting and closure of The Horse & Groom, have they taken a moment to consider the consequences for the rest of the staff? So because one person misjudged a situation, the kitchen staff, waitresses and managers - yes, there is more than one manager, folks - everyone should lose their jobs? Hardly seems fair, does it? Jobs are very hard to come by these days, so I hope that those demanding the closure will provide income for the redundant staff while they look for employment elsewhere and then become targets for the idiots on here who'll then accuse them of sponging of the state. What a bunch of gossipy old women you all are.
ron,,1952
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9:04am Wed 21 Nov 12
Gypo.Joe wrote:heres a tissue for your issue haha luv it
Been e mailing or calling crying again have we you pair of p1ss flaps. Wha wha wha they put my name on the interweb Simon, take it off I dont want anyone to know who I am....wha wha wha, then you talk about tissues ROFL. You love to give it but cant take it back, typical bullies.
ronster monster rule book has rules boi thats why piggot the bigot had the blog shut down haha
ronnie the ronster monster giving out free advice
hugs/kisses x
ron
Gypo.Joe
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3:56pm Wed 21 Nov 12
Once seen never forgotten, ask the UAF. LOL
Soled and Heeled
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9:46am Fri 23 Nov 12
Gypo.Joe wrote:You can't get away with posting names up here! Watching watching watching! lol
Boo hoo Little Hampton !! Once seen never forgotten, ask the UAF. LOL
Search engine : "Why was erastus piggott closed down"
Amusing!
:)
Soled and Heeled
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9:48am Fri 23 Nov 12
:)
Gypo.Joe
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11:25am Fri 23 Nov 12
ROFL
jeepo17
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9:57am Sat 24 Nov 12
Gypo.Joe wrote:this rabble gypo joe is just a sheet cant ov the highest order i makes about 10 complaints a week al ova the net ta report the cant and whats been going on ova ere
I don't have too Karl......."the
y" know boi. ROFL
i send emails all ova the place reportin an complainin i like doing that cos i can lol
u dont scare no one an u can come round any time you feel u want too joe up to you im waiting an ready for u but seein as u are a net warrior only an a muvvers sheet cant it aint goin to happen otherwise u would have been round before like now so fack off back into u cave you muvver fackker cant and get suckin piggots pipe as u norm do lol
rarecockneyguvnor
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12:02pm Sat 24 Nov 12
You need to get that paranoia looked into, get yourself a check up from the neck up fat man.
Hey its great to see it all going Pete Tong in the BNP, its all imploding around your racist ears sonnny.
Well let me wind you up a little more fatty, I'm going to let you go so you can do your little dance all weekend.
Dance fatty dance away.
PS, I'm Spartacus, or is it Tom, or Piggott.
Gypo.Joe
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11:16am Mon 26 Nov 12
s ......ROFL.
cookster says...
10:55am Tue 13 Nov 12
But until I read the full story somewhere more reliable than the News Shopper I'm very wary about believing it.